Every person goes through the same phases of life in which they grow and develop. Our life circumstances in the early years strongly shape us and decide what opportunities we see for ourselves later in life.
Our vision of life can inspire us, but it can also constrict and stress us. Depending on how we look at our lives, we may find them pleasant and beautiful or stressful and difficult.
The purpose of life is that we develop towards the good. But how do we make that happen? In this day and age, we can acquire knowledge from many different sources. However, the basis of all knowledge is not new, because it is based on the laws of life that have always worked. Further useful knowledge is provided by psychological models of the last decades.
From my point of view, life is explainable and runs according to simple rules that can be learned. If you are interested in this path and you are ready to become a better person and you also confront your obstructive patterns over a few years, you will find the knowledge for it here.
If you apply the knowledge, you will grow as a human being and gradually become a wise, happy person who is able to reach the highest state of development, that of enlightenment.
I myself have walked this path. It requires self-motivation, intuition, willingness to learn, adaptability, willingness to take risks, perseverance, discipline, patience, trust and the ability to set boundaries.
The further you go down this path, the more secure and stable you will feel and the better you will be able to deal with everything that happens in life.